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Our Thoughts Shape Our Reality

Updated: Apr 25, 2023


Early childhood leadership is not just about actions and skills but also about mindset and beliefs. Our beliefs about ourselves, our teams, our children, and their families are crucial in shaping our thoughts, attitudes, and behaviours.

In this blog post, we will delve into the power of leadership beliefs and how they influence leadership effectiveness. We will explore the specific types of leadership beliefs and their impact and how to cultivate positive leadership beliefs to enhance effectiveness.

Influence of Beliefs

Beliefs are the foundation of our thoughts and attitudes, shaping our behaviours as early childhood leaders. For example, a room leader who believes in the potential of their team will inspire and empower them to achieve their best. On the other hand, a room leader who holds negative beliefs about their team's capabilities may micromanage and undermine their team's potential, resulting in low morale and engagement.

Different Types of Leadership Beliefs

There are various types of leadership beliefs that influence how leaders perceive and interpret the world. These include self-beliefs, team beliefs, and world beliefs.

Self-beliefs refer to early childhood leaders' perceptions of their own abilities, strengths, and weaknesses. A leader who does not believe in their own capabilities is more likely not to want to take risks and may be slow at making decisions and inspiring others. Some beliefs they may hold are: "I'm not good enough as a leader and don't have what it takes." "I'm too young/old/inexperienced to be a leader, and others won't take me seriously."

Team beliefs refer to a leader's perception of their team's capabilities. A leader who does not believe in their team's capabilities is more likely not to delegate tasks and feels that they need to hold all the answers and solutions to challenges. Some beliefs they may hold are: "My educators are not motivated, so I need to push and pressure them to do their job constantly." "I don't trust that my team can resolve issues, so I need to have all the answers." "I can't trust the team to get the job done, so I need to keep prompting them every step of the way."

World beliefs refer to a leader's perception of the external environment, including the organization's culture, industry trends, and societal factors. An early childhood leader with an optimistic view of the world and who embraces change as an opportunity will likely adapt more effectively to challenges and lead their team through uncertainty. For example, "The early childhood sector will thrive once these changes have been implemented." "Although the early childhood sector has a shortage of dedicated educators at present, creative problem solving will create solutions that will change the face of early childhood for the better." "Parents and families sometimes think we are childminders and don't believe in the importance of early education, so it is our job to help them experience the benefits of what we do and how it helps their child's development."

The Impact of Beliefs on Leadership Behaviours

Beliefs drive leadership behaviours. For example, a leader who believes in the importance of collaboration and inclusivity will actively seek diverse perspectives, encourage open communication, and value team input.

On the other hand, an early childhood leader with beliefs centred around control and hierarchy may restrict collaboration and create a culture of fear and distrust. Beliefs influence decision-making, problem-solving, and conflict-resolution styles.

A leader who believes in a growth mindset and sees failure as a learning opportunity will approach problem-solving with creativity and resilience. In contrast, an early childhood leader with a fixed mindset and fears of failure may be risk-averse and hinder creativity and innovation within their team.

Strategies to Cultivate Positive Leadership Beliefs

Early childhood leaders can actively work to cultivate positive leadership beliefs that enhance their effectiveness. This can be done through critical self-reflection, self-awareness, and continuous learning.

Leaders should reflect on their beliefs about themselves, their team, and the world around them and identify any unresourceful beliefs that may be getting in the way.


In conclusion, leadership beliefs play a significant role in shaping early childhood leadership effectiveness. Our beliefs about ourselves, our team, and the world influence our thoughts, attitudes, and behaviours as leaders. It is crucial for leaders to reflect on their beliefs and actively cultivate positive beliefs that align with their “why” values and leadership goals.

Reflection Prompt

I invite you to set aside some time to reflect on the following question: What specific beliefs about yourself, your team, and the world around you do you think maybe influence your effectiveness as an early childhood leader, and how might reshaping these beliefs positively impact your leadership approach and outcomes?

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